Bad News
The vet called with bad news. Murphy has squamous cell cancer in his nasal passage. It could be treated aggressively with disfiguring surgery and chemo, but even with treatment, his prognosis is poor. Murphy is old and I don't want to put him through that. The vet said that if Murphy was his dog, he would just let him enjoy what time he has left. Murphy probably has a few weeks before he'll need to be put down.
It's at times like this that I'm sorry that I have dogs. They give me so much joy, but when they get sick and die, the pain is unbearable.
Written by Melissa on 9:46 AM
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I am so, so sorry to hear this news. Know that you are doing the right thing and enjoy every precious moment you have together these next few weeks. My heart goes out to you.
Oh Melissa, i am so very sorry :(
Wish there was a magic cure, enjoy every minute,Murphy knows how much you love him :)
I'm so sorry Melissa. I love Murphy too, and I know how you must be feeling right now. It has been 8 months since my sweet Baby left, and Kerry Bear left on New Years. I still think about them every day and, yes I do still cry, frequently, but every day I look at the pictures of Baby that I have everywhere and I remember with a smile what a beautiful loving spirit she had, the many fun filled day she had playing ball, swimming in the pool, running and rolling in the grass at your house, snuggling with her Momma, and I know that she knows she was loved, by her family and friends. Murphy has had the best life and the best Mom a good boy could ever have, and he knows he is loved by everyone. I know Baby, Kerry and Chaucer are waiting to greet Murphy when his time comes with lots of sloppy kisses and snuggles.
So sorry to hear about Murphy! The worst part about being an animal owner and lover is losing one of your beloved pets. I have a brittany spaniel named Loki. My parents have his mom (Nikki) dad (Thor) and one of his brothers (Bruno). I delivered him and the whole litter of 8 puppies. He's like one of my kids. I'd be devistated if something happened to him. I've been reading your blog for several months now, stumbled upon it one day while bored and clicking that magical button on the top right "next blog" have found some great blogs by doing that. I enjoy both your posts and your pics. Reminds me alot of my sister to read your posts about work because she is a RN for labor and delivery, and I she tells me all about the things that happen at work. Best of luck to you and again so sorry to hear about Murphy, I'm sure he's had the best life a dog could possibly have with a mom who loves him so much.
Oh, Melissa.. I'm so sorry to hear that. We all love Murphy through your blog. Give him an extra hug for me.
Melissa, I am sooooo sorry. Murph is a full-fledged family member, not just a dog. My God give you the strength to deal with this.
Sending you a great big HUG.
Oh I'm so sorry Melissa, I know exactly what you mean about being sorry you have animals at this time, I felt just that way about Poppy but you still have some time left with the lovely Murphy so enjoy every minute together.
Hugs.
Henry,HP,Irene, Michelle, Sarah, Andrea, Me, Karen and Gemmak, I can't tell you how much it means to me to receive your kind comments. Every single comment made me cry. Knowing that you all care has given me strength to get through this. Thank you, every one.
Do you suppose dogs go to the same heaven as cats? The loss of our cat Dingus is still fresh in my heart. It sneaks up on me when I'm not expecting it. Pets are just hairy little children. Enjoy the time you have to spend with them. *hugs*
You're right that pets are hairy children. I'm still not over the deaths of my previous dogs 6 and 10 years ago. It's just not right that pets don't live as long as their owners. If there aren't dogs in heaven, I don't want to go there. Thanks for the hug. :)
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